Any chance your past sexual experiences may be wreaking havoc in your present?


I remember you stating in a thread that all you sexual experiences with male partners were unpleasant, you felt coerced, obligated, you had to get juiced up on alcohol in order to engage in these acts, and so forth...


At times, our subconscious unfortunately also has a say in our orgasms..


Just a thought, discard if I'm way off base.