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Originally Posted by Brown Owl
This doesn't seem strange to me at all. Are there things you disagree on but never say? If so why don't express it - why are you keeping it to yourself? If you do this what does it say about you feel about yourself and your own views? Perhaps she is trying to encourage you to express yourself it isn't natural that you would agree on everything, relationships aren't like this, and how do you handle this in other relationships?
I disagree with my T often.
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I've often expressed my disagreement with her approach or opinions. On these occasions, we have both been able to speak openly and without personal judgments. I'm not keeping things to myself and we don't agree on everything. Furthermore, she has praised me on how I've handled disagreements.
This is why the new suggestion is puzzling.