I've like lost will and hope in seeing another therapist too after it didn't go well with several private ones and had negative experiences of trying to get therapy through mental health service too. At the end of the day, its not up to the therapists to understand and deal with your issues and make changes in your life. They can provide a space where you can express share thoughts and feelings about things your experiencing /have experienced and they can listen and give you a different perspective, sometimes supportive, empathic other times more critical, challenging and explore options, and they have one or several approaches, which they can use to try to help you and its up to you if you want to try them and see if they work for you.