There's no guarantee you'd get along with either sex as it still comes down to the child's personality vs. yours and don't get wrapped up in gender roles; not all girls are girly and not all boys are boyish. Be thankful that you're having a baby and look forward to all the wonderful times ahead; there are plenty of gender neutral activities you can do, get them interested in painting, animals, nature, science...it doesn't all have to be pink and princess-y. Congratulations