Oh...I know how to get angry..lol... I just need to be more appropriate with my anger... Also I use anger to distance myself--so working on figuring all of THAT out.

Point well taken: The purpose of confrontation in therapy is for the therapist to pick up discrepancies in your story that you are not aware of... and to either directly or indirectly call your attention to it so you can gain some insight on what's not matching up.

Gee with all of this stuff whirling around... like your anger with your T... don't you ever just feel like a nut? I do...lol It is sorted out in time though.

I do agree with Alexandra that not all negative transference is positive... It needs to be functional... and sometimes I think it is a gamble.

Oops I am being redundant. I will back off a bit as I answered some short answers at work.... You responded to this.