Not all children need naps. Some do better with just a bit of quiet time instead.

I'd recommend moving special things out of arm's reach, so they can't get torn or hurt. Buy washable crayons, and throw the others away (or set them aside to color with together or as a reward). Go to your local library together, for toddler time or to borrow a book or two, as a reward for being good.

I know that it's really hard, but ask if she'd like a hug when she becomes upset. It works though! Don't wait until your girl is furious before you try these tips. The best think to do is to start them right off the bat, before emotions are skyrocketed. Sometimes, we have to repeat as well. Just one hug isn't going to cover it in an emotional moment. Talking about the core issue really does help. I struggled with my older daughter until she was around 9 y.o., due to her resentment towards me for lots of changes in our world. A lot of the tips I'm giving to you are changes that I've had to make myself.