CE, when I first joined PsychCentral last June, your threads about Madame T were some of the first I read here, so I remember exactly what I thought. It was, "Oh, dear, painful situation!"

I don't know if I ever figured out if you and Madame T were engaged in a particular type of therapy or if it was an eclectic mix. I wanted to make a comment back then, ask some questions, but I was new and thought it would be intrusive to just butt in saying, "Tell me the story," when the situation had obviously been unfolding for a long time and there seemed to be quite a bit of feeling behind the insouciance.

Do you feel okay about saying what type of therapy it was? It would help me understand the situation and your question about transference better.