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in order to see if it has a negative impact on our feelings about each other.........
I'm also worried that if she discloses something to me about her personal attitudes that does end up making me feel distant from her, it could destroy our rapport and our work.
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Why would you let it create a distance & destroy a rapport that is already established unless it is an issue that you need to work on?
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I think, when I started this thread, I was looking for some helpful input on this particular aspect: my T's curiosity to find something that would make her personally feel negatively about me.
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That isn't what you stated in your opening post....the above is what you stated. That is probably why people are responding to it being about your reaction & not about it being her issue.
The difference in wording could definitely bring about different responses
.....is that really what you are worried about or is what you initially stated a worry also?