Wow a hard one. If she is that upset it might mean she's too tied to you personally to be objective as a T. It's nice to see she cares for you, but a T should never be overwhelmed and unable to help. That's the point where they give you a referral.

I would have the same love/guilt reaction if my T responded this way, which is not healthy for me and really why I'd like us to stay detached. If I'm worrying about pleasing her it's just distracting me from my purpose, healing in order to live a better life.

Good luck Growli[emoji176]