It makes sense to me, alcibie. Sometimes, professionals focus on things that they think we feel strongly about when we actually don't. Of course mental health professionals are people and so they have blind spots, and although they are hopefully more aware of them I still think that in some cases they are biased in favour of us reacting in certain ways. I notice this in my therapist sometimes, and I have pointed it out to him, too.

But since you do want to be more aware of your own feelings, maybe what she suggests could be a good idea for you? Even if it's not going to be about the csa, it could be that a facility that specialises in depression and eating disorders could help you figure out root causes.