As someone that has told his T (a woman) his deepest sexual secrets and desires, I have also secretly wished that at some point she would help me physically with my issues and indulge some of my fantasies. The reality is that I know that it will never happen, and rightly so, shouldn't happen.

It is hard not view the "non-judgemental" aspect of a therapist as a sign of acceptance. That "apparent acceptance" can breed attraction and attachment as the client feels that the T agrees and wants the same. I mean as humans, when we divulge our deepest sexual secrets and desires, it is normally to someone we are emotionally and sexually attracted to.

And it doesn't help when they are attractive!