It's inexplicable, but sometimes either one or both individuals in a couple "fall out of love" , which I've always found to be really sad. However, in my current relationship, I'm taking the stand that love takes a lot of hard work for both parties, that it's a decision to stay together and work through your differences, and trudge through the bad times and enjoy the good times together.

Nobody can tell you what to do, but I do feel that there is no harm giving your relationship another chance. Have a good long talk with him, tell him how you feel and ask him whether he is willing to make the relationship work with you. It will take a lot of effort, and you must be careful not to fall back into old habits (for example being too needy).

But after all if you love him and do want to spend your life with him, you would want someone who could be there to give you support while you're coping with something as stressful as an abortion. Remind each other that although the situation may look miserable now it will pass. I hope this helps!!