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Old Oct 24, 2014, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by nameisnotimportant View Post
No, I don't have those kinds of feelings about my T, though I'm intrigued to know what prompted that question.


I don't. I'd be saddened if my T had formed that opinion and even more saddened if her suggested exercise were a covert way of addressing such a misreading of my attitudes. But perhaps that is a possibility. Perhaps she has formed a 'theory' about me that misses me completely.
I was just wondering about these things because sometimes T's will try to lessen the transference by helping the client see that they are not truly compatible with the T.
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You saw her bathing on the roof
Her beauty in the moonlight overthrew you
She tied you to a kitchen chair
She broke your throne, and she cut your hair
And from your lips she drew the Hallelujah

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Thanks for this!
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