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Originally Posted by Vossie42
Psych Central is supposed to be a place where we can vent about private stuff like awful sex. Few people in real life want to hear about this stuff and even fewer people can be trusted with this information. So, who do you talk to?
Why is it a pity that the husband "can't defend himself"? Is it because as a man you feel personally attacked by the OP's post? Just curious. I couldn't care less what my exes say about me in a public forum like this. They have the right to their own opinions, to vent, or whatever. They can tell bald-faced lies. I only care if they use my name or picture.
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I guess so, and I guess I'm a hypocrite, because I've talked about exes, too, it's just the sexy time I've always seen as really private, but to each their own. And yea, I suppose psychologically, I do feel a bit attacked as a man; strange really, since it has jack crap to do with me. Haha. I get like that sometimes. Pretty firm in my ways, sorry, OP.
I usually jump to the woman's defense, but I'm trying to be honest and actually try to see things from the other person's perspective. (plus I got the feeling the OP really wanted a genuine opinion.)
I think I kinda took the original post as a bit "man-hating", to be truly honest with you, and I guess it kicked up some bitter stuff from my own experiences.
My partner. (if I had one xD)
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