Despite the BP1, I have been married for 2 months now to a girl that has been my best friend all my life. Has it been easy? No it hasn't. I struggle with the relationship because of my own fears and paranoia. I'm constantly worried about what I am going to do next that will hurt her, or scare her. But as long as you keep on with psychiatric intervention and take care of yourself, I think that anything can be a good thing.