SeptemberMorn and others:

Thank you much for the well wishes. I worked hard today in humid 85 degree weather and still felt good. If I anyone has questions about prostate cancer, perhaps we can talk by email.

The question about indirect anger is a good one...and I see _Sky has quoted the list of ways anger can be expressed. Of course, one of the more common ways to expressing anger or irritation is just to withdraw and say little or nothing. But there are other situations that cause people to be quiet or to be silent. I wonder how often the other person will feel some anger but deny it when I ask if you have done anything to bother them? Any ideas about how to find out their true reasons for withdrawing? Ask them? Just oberve over time?

I think we will get better specific suggestions about uncovering hidden anger if we dealt with specific situtations.

drclay