Thank. Yeah, I will try that.
And she did, I am going to be leaving her practice. I mean only twice in two years, but still. I did resist too, but maybe I should have done so harder. I didn't actually refuse, I just strongly rejected the advance. But she said I needed to get used to it or whatever. Idk, it was awkward.
But I agree. Handshakes are good. And I can usually do that quick-half uniform hug that you do with strangers who are related to you at family parties. But it's weird. Idk. But I think it may be more uncomfortable to try to explain that I am uncomfortable than to just shut up and deal with it.