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Originally Posted by Generic_username123
It's hard to judge without knowing his side of the story whether he's point scoring or really feels like he needs a shoulder to confide in. Do you spend much time apart? and has he got anyone he can talk to for support? I think it's important for both parties in a relationship to have that.
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I feel like he's point scoring at times because he only talks about the mistakes I have made when I've apologized profusely & I changed my reactions. And honestly, I would lash back at him for the things he's done to me. It wasn't right & I've corrected my behavior...but I'm human. Even when he called me names because he was angry about something of the past, I said nothing. I walked away hurt but peacefully & spoke to him once he calmed down.
I know we've made mistakes but I don't want to hear about them anymore. I'm starting to wonder if he's a chopper or narcissistic because someone who loves me wouldn't dangle my past in front of me as I move forward.