There is always going to be this irrational fear that our significant other will be better off if they didn't have to "deal" with us. I know cause I feel that all the time as of late. I've been in the middle of a med change and have literally lost my mind on a couple of occasions. It doesn't seem fair to me that she has to deal with it. I feel like a burden, but its not just my choice. This woman has chose to be by my side for years. 20 years as a best friend, 12 years on and of as my SO, and 2 months as my wife. The point is she has been there through all of it and knows what the disease does, and still chose to be with me.

My best advise for you, as you are just newly diagnosed, I am going to assume there are some med changes going on? Once you reach full stability things should go smoother in your relationship. Give him a chance to work on learning about you and trying to cope with what you are going through. Let it work itself out. Until you and your husband have a discussion together about dissolving the marriage, don't make the mistake of choosing for him as you may lose something you really never wanted to lose.