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Originally Posted by LadyOrangeade
I feel like he's point scoring at times because he only talks about the mistakes I have made when I've apologized profusely & I changed my reactions. And honestly, I would lash back at him for the things he's done to me. It wasn't right & I've corrected my behavior...but I'm human. Even when he called me names because he was angry about something of the past, I said nothing. I walked away hurt but peacefully & spoke to him once he calmed down.
I know we've made mistakes but I don't want to hear about them anymore. I'm starting to wonder if he's a chopper or narcissistic because someone who loves me wouldn't dangle my past in front of me as I move forward.
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Name calling is abuse, Plain and simple. You keep talking about how you have made mistakes and changed your behavior and that's a good thing , But are you going over board on taking blame for what seems like most anything? and he maybe isnt taking responsibility for his own mistakes and actions? Him constantly tossing the past up in your face is emotional abuse and controlling behavior.
I would advise you to think long and hard about staying with a person that isn't respecting you.It seems to always get worse once your legally tied to a person.
Talk to a Therapist about your relationship it might be very helpful to you in deciding what is best for you.
You have a son to protect. Him hearing fights and such isn't healthy for him.
Take care of you and your son
