Dear Musica91

It is very hard for anyone who has never been stalked to appreciate just how awful this situation can be. Cryingontheinside describes it really well above...it can feel like you have no control over your own life, and that you are losing your mind.

I have had to negotiate unwanted intrusions from my stalker neighbour for more than 10 years. It is so important to not engage or respond to him in any way...this is what the authorities and experts say. It is also very important to keep all correspondence and keep a journal of dates and times and a description of the intrusions. Ensure that you tell as many people around you what is going on. Try to obtain a restraining order if you can...but unfortunately, this usually gives the stalker 'Just another Challenge'.....but give it a go.

Take care of yourself Musica91.