Thanks Possum for your words of advice here. I do not currently have a T the one I worked with is out in CA and I am in MI but I guess I could call him. Hmmmmm now that I am talking about this I did work with a T here for a while who was very nice. HE did know about the DID but we really didn't have to work on it at the time. Maybe I can contact him for a session to just talk this over.

You are right marriage is about trust and I would want my partner to trust me.

Thanks again.

ReRe54