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Old Oct 27, 2014, 03:29 PM
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My views?

As with most things in life, it depends on the individual and or individual circumstances. And my view will be dependent on these factors...


If this was your first thread, and I knew absolutely nothing about you and your circumstances, I would relay the story of how I had a wonderful FWB setup for the duration of my pregnancy.


But, since I've read more than just your bio, I would have to go with nooooo, please don't date while you're pregnant, focus on yourself and the baby you have growing inside of you.


What you've described, especially in your love addict thread, does not make for a healthy and happy pregnancy, or post natal period, as you will most likely be losing yourself inside a relationship, involved with a man who's not good for neither you nor your baby...


Stick to your original plan as outlined in your bio. Focus on healing and learning to love yourself, instead of trying to find someone to kill the loneliness and provide you with the emotional security and self -confidence you crave.


You can depend on yourself for these things instead of attempting to get a man to provide them for you.


Pregnancy should be as smooth as possible, please don't go looking for drama. It wont be healthy for the baby, and your baby is your number 1 priority right now.


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Thanks for this!
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