Two years ago I started developing feelings for this girl (I'm a girl). Then two weeks later she came out to everyone as gay with her girlfriend. I was crushed, but somehow we became incredibly close friends without her ever knowing how I felt about my sexuality or that I had feelings for her. I eventually got over her, because we had become really good friends, and she had a great relationship with her girlfriend and I was happy for them.

Now that we have just started college, she and her gf are broken up due to geographical distance, and I find myself still having feelings for her even though we are four states apart and it's been two years. On top of all this, I'm *still* trying to come to terms with my sexuality. I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I should tell her or not, considering that she still misses her old gf and it could ruin our amazing friendship.

It's killing me inside.

- AJ