Cryingontheinside,

I have had a restraining order on him before, but do not currently have one.

I had the judge give me a restraining order for the length of the divorce, but my ex used "dropping it" as a negotiation tool in the divorce (long story I won't go into here).

So currently, I do not have a restraining order.

There is a problem with getting one too - if I do that, I must face him in court to make it permanent.

And if I do, of course he will know where I relocated to - where I have moved to.

And that's what I'm trying to prevent.

I am so sorry you went through this - its awful! Just awful.

I hope you are out of this situation now? (are you?)