She has some very good points! We have an innate gift when it comes to getting a man's attention if we want it bad enough! And you did your part to reconcile, the rest is up to her. Forgive yourself, love is NOT a crime. Nor is it an unforgivable sin! There could be any number of reasons why she won't speak to you. A jealous boyfriend or maybe she feels shame and guilt over how she treated you. It could even be that she (for some reason) doesn't feel like she deserves you. My point is, there is no reason to take full responsibility for her actions (or lack of) when you don't know what her reasons are. In all likelihood, its not your fault. A woman's heart is often times full of secrets.