It took me a year from the point when I decided I wanted one to when I actually got one. Like you I wanted something that was going to be symbolic of what I had been through. I took that time to figure out what I wanted, research artists, and make sure I was going to be in a good frame of mind to get it.

I love my tattoo. I thought I would get something small but I ended up with a rather large piece that goes from my hip to half way up my rib cage. My tattoo artist was fantastic and so understanding of my needs, and the importance of this tattoo for me, and I brought a friend who held my hand and documented the process for me.

I am available if you have any questions, but I would say take your time, because looking at your tattoo everyday should be a joyful experience and part of getting there is being mindful about the process