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Originally Posted by hvert
I'm not sure -- so many business and job opportunities come via word of mouth and personal recommendations. At times in my life when I have been more social, I've had a lot more opportunities than I do when I seclude myself. Even just really basic stuff -- my fridge stopped working. A friend happened to be moving and sold me her one year old fridge for practically nothing.
I am probably thinking more of acquaintances than friends, though -- just knowing a lot of people seems to make life easier when you want to find a new job, start a business, produce a play, have an art show, etc.
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Yeah I see, but they are not like real friends. I mean, I have worked with a lot of people so sure I have a lot of acquaintances but they don't add anything to my life like real friend could...not that I am even bothered about having that either right now! Right now, I am concentrating on getting better and I need to keep my head clear and away from drama that people can bring. Maybe in time I will want to have friends again, but I feel also, it is also ok if I don't.
