Interesting because my H places guilt on everyone else but him & my psychologist said that was very normal. He always has an excuse for why things are the way they are & never takes any responsibility for what happened. Any time questioned, the answer was always "I don't know" or "Whatever"......so honestly, I respect you for taking responsibility when it is appropriate.....it's important to learn that there are some things you might really NOT be guilty for but it's important to be able to distinguish the difference. Taking responsibility doesn't mean being consumed by guilt either.....it's important to learn those fine lines & sometimes that's the difficult part.