I know a lot of young men who don't have any experience with women at all. A lot of younger women are interested in older guys. By younger I mean low to mid 20's and by older men I mean low 30's.

What women are interested in is men who are confident. I think that you are looking at an idealized view that will prevent you from finding someone.

My advice, go for the career you want, not the job you are stuck in. As long as you think negatively about yourself and judge yourself because of your job you won't find a woman interested.

Make yourself the best you that you can.