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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
I REALLY fail to see the point in making this a poll.
Yes, you are cheating on your husband.
Yes, you CAN simply have a chat and end it right now.
All sorts of chemical happenings are going on in your brain right now. They will not stay there. When it all goes away, you will simply be a woman who left her husband (who you admit to being happy with) for another man.
It happens all of the time. Unfortunately.
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I didn't ask to be told off like a naughty school girl I asked for an option.
I have been thinking over the last couple of years about leaving my husband anyway due to things that have gone on with us but have chosen to stay with him for the sake of are children I have spoken to them in the past about this and they have said as long as I'm happy then they are.
The way I feel for my work colleague will not go away and nor will how he feels about me and has done for 18 mths now. I feel deep down that what we are doing is wrong but I also feel that finishing my marriage is the best option for myself and my husband if this doesn't work out for my work colleague and I then I will not look back and say how stupid I was for ending my marriage but look back on all the happy moments I had with both of them.
I feel doing this in the new year would be better as it is a couple of weeks from my youngest child's birthday and Christmas I want it to be filled with happiness not arguing.
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Really happy in life
Happy in love
Just in a load of pain all the time