Geis

You do matter, you matter to us. I am sorry that the advice we are giving is not helping. Please understand that it is coming from a place of caring. We wish we could lift you up but we are all stuck behind our little computer screens in our little corners of the world so suggestions are the best we can do.

But if you take nothing else from this, there are a bunch of people who do not even know your actual name who care to whom you matter very much.