so can you talk to her about how you feel? let her know this approach is not working for you? how much do you want to get better? I know when my t says something that hurts, it is because I don't want to hear it and that is because it is something I really need to look at. so I really take it seriously. after all, I am paying them to be honest with me and help me get better and sometimes the truth hurts, but if they don't tell it to me like it is, I am never going to get better.