I'm very upset right now and hurt. I try so hard not to cut and the last thing I need is to be Judged. I belonged to another group and 4 days ago I told them I was really depressed and was fighting from cutting. Well I Haven't been doing too good tonight and I have been fighting so hard not to cut. I have been even using ice. I got a response and they put me down and said do you want to have to look at your scars the rest of your life and remember the pain you went through. It was very painful and cruel what they said to me. There was more. I have quit their group tonight. It just made me feel worse and made me sink lower. I just want to know why do people have to Judge us? Their not in our shoes they dont know how were feeling. All My Life I have been Judged and I have a hard time dealing with it. It makes me feel so low. It makes me feel like dirt. Sorry for going on like this.