This perhaps should go into the relationships forum, but I see things through the veil of depression and I would like opinions from others who do the same.

We moved here (half way across the country) about ten years ago. I have one sister. She stopped speaking to me and my family when we left. Previously, we were very close.
I continued to give monetary gifts to her children for Christmas and Birthdays. My children didn't even get a card.

I have tried to ask her why she's angry, but the only reply was that she had a "problem" and would not elaborate. She did email me once...In reply I asked for an explanation from her about her treatment of us. She would not give it to me. I have spent years fretting about this and wondering what I did. The only conclusion (and my husband agrees) is that she's angry that we left.

I finally emailed and told her that I don't wish to have any contact with her.

I am wondering what anyone else here would have done, considering your own depression.

Thank you to all who care to reply.