from a guy's view tattoos are always hot on lady

the back tattoo is a good idea think about some open back dress u always have something to talk about tell a story once they notice the artwork

the only rule with tattoos u need to worry about is when u get dressed up for work/court that the cloths cover them up (look professional )

as for your mother /family tell them my body my choice if u want to keep ragging on me about it then i do not need to talk to u .........when they do get up walk out of the room with out saying a word soon or later they will learn to stop it or u leave

if it makes u feel better i have a god awlful tattoo i got when i was 14 (friend did it with needle tread and indian ink) i keep it to remind me i am a moron sometimes (21 years) ....rest of my body is covered in scars from crazy things i did over the years .........but it always makes a good story and breaks the ice with new ppl