I agree with Trippin. His view of you has changed, NOT because of your appearance, but because of your function....of which your baby bump is a constant reminder.
Right now, I don't think he will suddenly reverse this feeling. And perhaps he needs a therapist to try to understand where it's coming from.
Hopefully, when you're no longer an incubator to him, he'll see you in the same sexual way as pre-pregnancy.
I am sorry that this is happening to you, but please try not to let it affect your self-esteem (difficult, I know). Realize that he is not feeling this way deliberately.
Just a word of caution....you will be exhausted and possibly have some post-partum depression so it's VERY important that you understand this for what it is NOW. Because later, your hormones will have you thinking all sorts of things that are not true.
Is it possible to consider a birthing center rather than your home? I think it would help him and, in turn, help you.
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