You are so lucky.

You have an excellent opportunity to work with professionals to help you find the balance to lead a very happy and productive life. Bipolar isn't a tragedy - it just feels like it during the errrrr - time of re-balancing.

Also - for close friends and family there is much information and support offered to them now more then ever.

I have really - really messed up. I didn't take the early opportunity to stick with meds and counseling, that was offered over 3 marriages ago, 2 kids ago, 17 fender benders ago, 2 unfinished colleges ago, 20 jobs ago, 11 homes ago, 6 states ago, over 30 years ago.

So look at that history of mine, say wow, be appreciative of this early discovery and follow the path to maintenance. Be careful with yourself, and take time to heal before you make rash decisions.

My biggest regrets are the impulsive decisions made with other peoples wishes becoming what ruled my decisions instead of being supportive of myself and my own best interests.

Treat others as you wish to be treated BUT also expect to be treated just as well back. Having this illness doesn't mean we deserve abuse because we feel guilty or unworthy.

Best of luck to us all.