I feel better about saying no to her requests today- but I feel awful for her kids. They didn't even have Halloween costumes yet. I've wondered if I should talk to someone at social services, but I'm worried any intervention would actually make things worse. She told me that she sees a counselor who comes to her home three times a week, in addition to DHS visits, so they really should be aware of her situation.

I ordered a few books about saying no a while ago. I wish they'd hurry up and come already!