Hi all,, I've recently posted about my breakup of 8 years. Well he left me, but a month later told me that I could move back in with him in his new house, that i could stay with him until I get on my feet. Well its been two weeks since I've been at his house, I LOVE him more than I ever thought was possible. It took him 4 almost 5 years into our relationship for him to tell me that he loves me. He has major emotional issues from a past marriage. Well about 5 months ago, I started a new job, started goint to the bar not coming home until 3 or 4, never cheated, but could understand why he would think so. I told him one night out of nowhere that ididn't love him anymore, that I didn't want to be with him and that I wasn't happy. He told me that night that he didn't love me either, but I made a mistake, I DO LOVE HIM. but he moved out, and still to this day tells me he doesn't love me. How do I make him want me again, what can I do? Do you think its possible to save our relationship? I mean I'm living with him again, Ifeel like if there were no feelings there, he wouldn't have let me move back in, I feel in my heart that we could be happy, that I just hurt him, and so unexpectedly.
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