Thanks Zinco for the heads up on that. I've been there done it myself . Having come from an abusive and traumatic childhood, I found myself "getting relief" when I was 13 and ended up in a rehab facility by the time I was 17. Luckily I managed to pull myself together and away from the numbing, soothing effects of D&A. It's still a default method of coping for me at times

At this point in time he is safe from thankfully safe from that.

Many thanks
Jannaku x