Don't be stupid.

Tonight I have got PMs from people who told me how stupid, irritating, frustrating, horrible I am.

I just try and remember that they have their own problems, which are clearly far more severe than mine.

Many people here are scared to post much, which is understandable. Don't feel they are not listening to you.

Others (including me) just don't have time to read everything, flat out at work, and only get to read a bit of the forum per day. Having the energy to respond to people is also an issue.

Good luck and don't leave just cos of that ... more people read and identify with your posts than actually comment, I am sure.