Sabau, I am going to respectfully offer a different point of view from yours, even though I generally agree with you.

There are appropriate and inappropriate levels of self-disclosure in relationships. Disclosing "I have deep feelings for you" if the relationship hasn't progressed to that point can be scary and off-putting for the other person. It sounds like there has been a layoff in this relationship, and it's time to go out for coffee, to a movie, a walk in the park, and get some read on whether the other person has any interest at all in letting things develop. Especially if this man has been hurt, he may not be ready for someone new just yet.