Antidotal stories used as fact are pretty lame. Each person is different, each system is different. For me, the point is to protect the system by not letting there be obvious differences to outside ppl. My T and my H know there is a change, but even my closest friends don't always know--unless a little comes front. I really don't like these kinds of articles that parade themselves as fact. I agree--there are NO references and there fore this article can be trashed along with "pulp-fiction"
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