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Originally Posted by Travelinglady
Hello, kylee_teacup, and welcome to Psych Central! Why do you think you might be making this worry up? It seems like a legitimate worry to me, although, in my point of view, a misguided one.
Let's face it, not every guy is a hunk, with a great body and face. Ultimately looks are much less important than the kind of person a guy is. Just wondering: Are you considered to be very good looking? I mean objectively. People tend to match themselves up on the level of looks--great-looking gals with great-looking guys and so on. Try to consider what you do like about him and try not to worry so much about his looks.
But if you are going to go around worrying about what other people will think, then maybe you should forget this guy. But do you always have to meet their approval?
Just wondering: Do you happen to be in therapy?  |
Thank you for considering what I wrote and giving an answer. However, it's not exactly the answer I was looking for =( I was wondering, more, how can I stop focusing on my facial expressions so much. I notice I didn't at first, I simply didn't worry about my facial expressions, but now I am afraid I will worry. Or how can I convince my mind that people are not expecting me to worry what my emotion looks like all the time.
To answer your question, I am considered by most to be very good-looking. And I do happen to be in therapy.