I know I stayed with a guy I was unhappy with because It was comfortable. The thought of moving out on my own, having my own place, sleeping alone at night terrified me. We finally broke things off, as much as I miss having someone to be close to, and all the good relationship stuff. I realized I'm better off now on my own. I'm not relying on anyone else to make me happy, I'm starting to figure my way around the city, and I'm starting to meet new people. I'm working on myself. sabotaging your own happiness by depending on a guy will lead you no where in life. it's just another form of self destruction. You should be with someone who makes you happy, someone who's crazy about you. Don't settle for any less, just because that's what your used to. I think it's time for you to move on, and be on your own, and make yourself happy.