Hi all-

Quick question- my dh is taking on a one-weekend side project in order to make a purchase for himself that he has been wanting. It's a significant amount of money and I'm jealous! We are also trying to save for a trip, but he wants to do this as something just for himself. His side is that it is ok to sometimes be selfish and buy something just for yourself. And also that every single one of his bonuses go towards bills and savings. I'm not going to tell him he needs to share some it but I can't help but feel like he is being selfish. If I had extra money, I feel that I would want it to go towards something for US. When I said that, he said, maybe it would be good for me to do something purely for MYSELF for once rather than US. Am I being unreasonable?