hi littleblackcloud
it does not mean you cant get support for yourself from your friends. you do not need to talk about how he feels, just how you feel. you can mention that he is struggling but you do not need to reveal the details. talk about your feelings and your struggles. you need support thru this too. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome