I think you went into all of this with stars in your eyes, thinking back on all those stories you heard of people marrying their best friend and riding off into the sunset, living happily ever after. Well, when you come right down to it, you LITERALLY married your best friend. I don't see this as romantic at all, and question why you'd stay in such a relationship. Sex and physical intimacy are very important parts of a relationship and in this case you just jumped right in with the incorrect assumption that if one is there, the other shall soon follow. Well, sadly, it doesn't. This woman is so inexperienced I question if she's even had knock-your-socks-off love....was there ever a lustful period where you....ok, right, there wasn't. Perhaps chalk this one up to marrying for the wrong reasons?