I am so glad I didn't have to deal with todays technology when I met my husband but if I did, I don't think I'd text people I wanted to date. I believe the instant access would choke me.

I get the feeling his personality would be hard on you. I don't know his deal but it seems too early in the relationship to be so confused.

I wish you luck but more than that~ I hope you find someone you can get to know without a need to be guarded.